5 Reasons You Should Listen To Ben Silby ‘can’t hang’
- Louise Clark
- Jun 16
- 2 min read

Ben Silby’s debut album “can’t hang” isn’t just a record—it’s a raw, genre-defying diary of queer life, love, and self-discovery spanning more than a decade. This Brooklyn-based artist blends sharp emotional insight with infectious indie-pop hooks, crafting songs that feel both deeply personal and universally relatable. If you're not already pressing play, here are five reasons why “can’t hang” deserves your full attention:
It’s a Decade of Emotion in One Album
Written between 2014 and now, “can’t hang” captures the messiness of growing up, falling in and out of love, and learning to live with yourself. Each track tells a story, offering unfiltered glimpses into Silby’s evolving identity and hard-won insights.
Genre-Bending Brilliance
From lo-fi Bedroom Pop to bright Indie melodies and theatrical Alternative flourishes, the album resists easy categorization—much like Silby themself. Fans of artists like Perfume Genius and Rufus Wainwright will feel right at home in its unpredictable beauty.
Honest Lyrics That Hit Hard
Silby’s songwriting is equal parts disarmingly funny and gut-punch honest. Whether it’s the aching line in “interlude” (“our teeth would clink as we kissed and I miss the discomfort…”) or the self-aware sadness of “my bad,” their words resonate long after the song ends.
Rich, Experimental Production
Produced by Miles Francis and mixed by Shiftee, the album features unique sonic elements like analogue beats and theremin layers—adding texture without overshadowing the emotional core. The production matches Silby’s vulnerability with precision and creativity.
It’s Queer, It’s Bold, It’s Unapologetically Real
“can’t hang” is an anthem for outsiders, misfits, and anyone who's ever felt too much. Silby doesn’t just represent queer experience—they embody it in every lyric, melody, and moment of cathartic release.
Press play and let Ben Silby’s “can’t hang” remind you how powerful, messy, and beautiful it is to feel.
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